Support Resources
Talking with children about violence is challenging. Here are some resources to help.
Early elementary school children need brief, simple information that should be balanced with reassurances that their school and homes are safe and that adults are there to protect them. Give simple examples of school safety like reminding children about exterior doors being locked, child monitoring efforts on the playground, and emergency drills practiced during the school day. These two online resources are focused on this level of development:
Upper elementary and early middle school children will be more vocal in asking questions about whether they truly are safe and what is being done at their school. They may need assistance processing the incident. Discuss efforts of school and community leaders to ensure their safety. These two online resources are focused on this level of development:
Upper middle school and high school students will have strong and varying opinions about the causes of violence in society. They will share concrete suggestions about how to prevent tragedies in society. Emphasize the role that students have in maintaining safe communities and schools, communicating any personal safety concerns to school administrators and parents/guardians, and accessing support for emotional needs. This online resources is focused on this level of development:
All students will be affected in different ways. We do not know how this event has affected people – directly and/or indirectly. Continue to assess the impact of the event on those around you, be mindful of self-regulation to assist youth in maintaining a level of safety and connection, and if you or someone you know is in crisis, call 988. The following resources are for focused on all ages: